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                    If 
                    you're a parent, especially the parent of a teenager, each 
                    day brings new joys and new frustrations. For many parents, 
                    a constant challenge in the family home is dealing with a 
                    common teenage condition: complaining. In fact, youčre probably 
                    so accustomed to the steady stream of complaints that you 
                    "tune out" most of it. 
  But don't tune out everything. A study published in the 
                    journal Pediatrics reports that adolescents with multiple 
                    physical complaints (that cannot be explained by known physical 
                    conditions) may be at risk for depression. The study evaluated 
                    1,015 teenagers (13-16 years old) and found that teens reporting 
                    physical symptoms (i.e., headaches or abdominal pain) with 
                    unknown causes faced the possibility of panic attacks and 
                    major depression four years later.  If you don't think these results are cause for concern, 
                    listen to this somber statistic: The suicide rate for adolescents 
                    has increased by more than 200% over the last decade!
 We should all listen more in general. Parenting is more than 
                    just telling your children what to do. It's also about listening 
                    to what they have to say and what they're feeling. As this 
                    study suggests, seemingly harmless physical complaints might 
                    be a manifestation of depression. Reference:  Zwaigenbaum L, Szatmari P, Boyle MH, et al. Highly somatizing 
                    young adolescents and the risk of depression. Pediatrics, 
                    June 1999: Vol. 103, No. 6, pp1203-09.  |